Archive for the ‘Parenting’ Category
Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I should probably start this post by saying two things:
1. I remember a time before PG13 rating became a ‘thing’ and
2. I’m probably considered strict or conservative by many when it comes to screen time
Both of these things probably color my stance on movies and television. I remember my parents saying, “Close your eyes! Close your eyes!” during certain parts of movies growing up. There are two stand outs moments that are seared in my brain. The first is when the Arc of the Covenant was opened and all the Nazis faces melted. The second was during The Right Stuff. To this day, I don’t know what Ed Harris was doing, but I assume kissing or worse, sex, was involved.
My parents didn’t have the luxury of a PG13 rating. So there were things that popped up they weren’t anticipating. And it’s entirely possible my memory is fuzzy, but I don’t remember as many ‘family-friendly’ movies when I was younger. (more…)
Wednesday, April 16th, 2014
I met Birute Efe through a comment she left here on the blog. Since that time, I’ve grown to develop a deep admiration for this mother of two raising her family in Turkey. I am honored to have this passionate woman who has a joyous outlook on life here to share her thoughts on motherhood. This parenting gig? It is tough, and it is beautiful. -Jen
There is a video (still in VHS) of me in my pony tails answering a question: “What do you want to be when you grow up.?” My friends picked professions like doctors, bankers and teachers while I stood up and proudly announced that I will be….” A Mommy”. I was 6 years old then. 20 years later, my “career” took off so now I am devoted, fully employed and happy mama.
I love parenting every day for many different reasons.
Yesterday, I loved being a parent because I got to witness my child create something unbelievable. I feel so lucky to help her with her creative poetry journey. Honestly, I think I am in a bubble when she calls me and says, “Mama, I got a new poem!” I drop everything, sit on the porch and write as fast I can every word that comes out of her little mouth. I feel like the luckiest person on earth. To top that, I spend the evening with my husband reading and quoting poems of our daughter.
That laughter and full satisfaction I feel, is because I am a parent. And I love it.
Birute Efe has daily fun at her kids activities blog Playtivities and the farm where she lives with her family. She loves creating activities and toys for her 2 kiddos by up-cycling household items, so she will never walk pass by a big cardboard box or a pile of old magazines. She believes the best learning comes from exploring and creating.
About this series:
Throughout the month of April, I’m teaming up with my friend Jenny Yarbrough of The Southern Institute to celebrate the joys of parenting. Consider it a prelude to Mother’s Day. We’ve asked some of our readers to share what they love most about parenting.
Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
When Jenny and I reached out to our readers to ask them to participate in this series, I was thrilled with their enthusiasm. Today, Tanya King from My Invisible Camera shares what she loves about being a parent. Many, many, many thanks to Tanya for being here today. You should absolutely check out her site. Her photography is full of love. -Jen
The thing that I absolutely love about being a parent is seeing them evolve into their own beings. When they’re first born and are so utterly dependent on you, you know that you are their entire universe. Here are these little creatures who know nothing about the world except for you, you, you.
Now this is the part I love: I feel as a parent that I can’t waste a single moment and I must share everything that is important in the world; that sweet potatoes taste better than mushed peas, that grandma gives the best hugs, that Star Wars is a part of life like breathing, and that there is good in absolutely everyone. You plant the seed in the hearts, you nurture it with lots of hugs and talks around the dinner table, and then you watch. You watch them grow into their proper little selves that they were always meant to be. They might decide they love mushed peas despite what you served at your house or that Star Trek is like breathing and you may be shocked and say, “Where did this kid come from?” But you will also stand in awe when you hear them say “I missed you today, mama” or when you see them open doors for other kids at school or be brave and stand up for a friend on the playground.
That is when you will know that this ‘being a parent’ thing is such a beautiful honor.
Tanya King is a girl who loves taking pictures, making crafty things, writing, and sometimes she even pretends to know that she can cook. She lives in the woods with her husband and three boys. After being diagnosed with lupus she gave up professional photography and now focuses her attention on staying healthy, doing yoga, and blogging all her family’s adventures.
About this series:
Throughout the month of April, I’m teaming up with my friend Jenny Yarbrough of The Southern Institue to celebrate the joys of parenting. Consider it a prelude to Mother’s Day. We’ve asked some of our readers to share what they love most about parenting. This week, hop on over to see what Kellie Snyder had to say.
Wednesday, April 2nd, 2014
Let’s face it, parenting is a tough gig—there’s no pay, the days are long and the people you manage can be…a challenge. But having a little one call me Mom is one of the most incredible and amazing and darn near miraculous experiences I’ll ever have.
Throughout the month of April, I’m teaming up with my friend, Jenny Yarbrough of The Southern Institute, to celebrate the joys of parenting. Consider it a prelude to Mother’s Day. We’ve asked some of our readers to share what they love most about parenting. Each week, we’ll hear from one of them.
Today, we’re kicking off the celebration with Jenny…
There’s no argument that parenting is hard work, but the joys of parenting far outweigh the struggles for me. One of the things that I love about parenting is discovering what makes my children tick. Each one of them is so different, expressing love in their own way and processing experiences differently. Figuring them out is like unlocking a puzzle. While my daughter feels most loved when I spend time with her, my youngest son feels most special when given special little gifts or surprises. A good snuggle makes my older son happier than anything else. The differences between the three is what makes parenting so much fun, and it’s one of the things that I love the most about this parenting journey.
Jenny Yarbrough is a wife and mother raising three beautiful children in Nashville. She stays busy homeschooling, sewing, designing patterns and writing, among the many other things that mothers and wives do each and every day. You might find her sitting with her daughter at a local coffee shop, sipping a yummy drink and poring over schoolbooks, but rarely will you find her just sitting around.
Monday, March 17th, 2014
Have you ever noticed that all the really popular parenting/craft blogs have content specifically targeted to kids under six? It’s all sweet and charming! You just want to curl up in the images and remember what it was like to be free to color and play make believe all day.
What happens to kids after six? Why aren’t there as many sweet and charming sites for parents of older kids? Is it because kids start to spend more time in school? Maybe it’s that kids start separating from their parents in search of their own independence? Is it that bigger kids stop being cute? Or does parental burnout play a role?
And it’s not just blogs, it’s other media too. You go from preschool to teen content with not much in between. Dave and I spent an hour last night trying to find a movie for the kids that wasn’t too cutesy while at the same time wasn’t inappropriate. Oh, and have I mentioned the clothing? Yikes!
Here is where I tell you, I am a mother to a tween… (more…)
Monday, March 10th, 2014
I’ll never forget the moment I found out we were having a boy. I laid on a table in a darkly lit room while a humorless tech rolled an icy cold ultrasound wand over my growing belly.
“Do you want to know?” (more…)
Thursday, January 30th, 2014
Hey Everyone! Jen here. I’m am beyond thrilled to introduce you to both a new column and a new contributor to Classic Play. MJ of Pars Caeli is heading up a new monthly column that seeks to make the most of what little time busy parents have with their kids. I’ve been thinking a lot about this space and realized that while my intentions are admirable, I can sometimes forget what it was like to be a work-out-of-the-home parent. MJ is living it! So she’s here to offer real, actionable solutions for busy parents looking to squeeze in a little quality time with their kids. I’m so excited about this column! I know it’ll appeal to any parent looking to connect—regardless of whether they work in or out of the home.
That amazing vacation. You know, that one when I was able to dedicate five full days to childhood laughter and treasured moments with my two daughters and son. I took over a hundred photographs, no lie. And we all still recall that week together with happy sighs and hopeful wishing.
But, let’s be honest. 99% of our time together as a family is NOT spent in blissful trips to magical places. We share spaces and meals; we help each other and aggravate one another; we travel together and hang out on the couch. Not nearly as intriguing, not naturally as life giving.
As the mom of this crew, I still want the five of us to have treasured times together even if they can’t be extended or exotic.
And that’s why I’m determined. (more…)
Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
If you have a facebook account, you have probably seen the change.org petition calling for Amazon to stop selling a truly repulsive book called To Train Up a Child. It’s been linked to the deaths of three children.
I must live in a bubble, because yesterday was the first I’d heard of the book, which, has been in publication since 1994. The passages that have been reprinted in news reports and on blogs churn my stomach.
I try to avoid getting sanctimonious on the site, nor do I talk much about my years in the behavioral field. Now I can’t envision you guys owning this book, mostly because I live in that bubble I was talking about, but I still thought it would be a good time to go over some basic things regarding punishment. Please forgive me for writing in simplistic terms, I’m a bit rusty. It’s been about 9 or 10 years since I trained anyone on this stuff.
First, let’s start with a few vocabulary terms…