Archive for the ‘Traveling With Kids’ Category
Saturday, November 16th, 2013
In my many years of blogging, I have been lucky enough to avoid certain ‘helpful’ comments like, “you suck!” Well, that golden age came to an end last week with our most recent episode for Adventures in Learning.
Apparently, we got everything wrong. It was made clear when our video was posted on a Moroccan expat site in the Netherlands. People flooded youtube with helpful comments:
lizrdski who rocked the ironic air quotes with this:
Lizzio1980 who chimed in:
You call that Cous Cous? When your doing this actually a women who can cook.
and Nicolas DOLO who added,
Truly believe those kids have learned as much about real Morocco as I do about the USA whenever I open a box of Corn Flakes. It’s pretty pathetic at best.
And things didn’t stop there. The comments came over to the Adventures in Learning page itself. Fadoua wrote:
…and your couscous is not cooked correctly. Same as the harira.
so to not offend other people’s culture, you should try to learn more about the country
before trying to teach someone or something…
and Nadia wrote:
…we have one of the best cooking in the world you re not teaching the true about country we know people by traveling and living with them
Now, here’s the thing about making short videos: we are condensing an entire day into four minutes. We are telling the story we think needs to be told. It is not the story of a country. Instead, what we present are nuggets of an idea on which parents can expand.
The criticism has hounded me for days. At first I was angry. How could all these people miss the point entirely? Then, I felt terrible that I offended people. My anxiety kicked into high gear and I wanted to crawl inside a hole. Now, I’m just tired. Tired and ready to move on.
Before I do though, I need to get something off my chest. For all of those who commented, a response:
First, this is not a cooking show, but a series to encourage families to make learning more adventurous. Second, we sat on the floor because our coffee table in the living room was too small to hold our plates so we improvised and put them on the floor. It never crossed our minds this would be offensive. Thank you for clarifying Moroccans do not eat on the floor, they eat at a small table. However, I assure you we would have done the same if we had cooked Italian, French, Indian or any other variety of cuisine.
And you’re absolutely correct—what we did is not nearly as effective a lesson as traveling and living among a people in their country. I would absolutely have LOVED if we had the money to travel to different countries and live among different people. Since that is not possible, this was our way of trying to expand our children’s world view.
Now, I suppose I could have avoided trying to teach my kids anything altogether since I’m not an expert in Morocco. You’re right about that. But my kids walked away from this experience thinking that they had things in common with kids in Morocco (their love of mint tea, that they study some of the same things, that they play video games just like them) and to me, that’s more powerful than knowing how to make couscous correctly (steamed, not soaked and fluffed several times so that it’s light and fluffy).
I imagine what upset you most is that my kids didn’t seem to like the food. I’m sure it’s the same for kids all around the world—they are used to what they eat, and when they are given another culture’s food, they don’t necessarily care for it at first. It’s not that the food is bad, it’s that they aren’t used to it.
I’m sorry for anything we got wrong and that you didn’t care for this episode. My goal for this video wasn’t to capture the entirety of a culture in four minutes, but to give parents ideas for helping them introduce their children to the great big world around them even if they have a limited budget and resources.
And now, it’s time to move on.
Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
One of the first things that my kids do when we arrive back from a long trip is our traditional 100 Memories List. This list has become an important part of the way our family holds and remembers the big and little details of our trips around the world.
The 100 Memories List is something my children learned from my mother who has been making memory lists since she was a little girl. And ever since my mother has been visiting us in Italy she has involved the kids in helping her compile her memory lists of their time spent together. It has become a special way to end her trips and gives the kids something to look over after the inevitable difficult good-byes.
And over the years the kids have slowly begun the tradition of making these lists after our own trips. Sometimes we work on one all together and sometimes we each make individual ones and compare what memories were important enough to make each person’s list.
And you’d be amazed at what details actually show up on these lists. The places visited, the people met, the food eaten, the strange observations made and even many little funny details that normally would most likely be forgotten if not written down soon after the trip.
I love reading back over these lists from years past and am always pleasantly surprised and reminded of many little “forgotten memories” that are triggered by a few words.
Does your family have any special way of recording memories of your trips and travels? I’d love to hear about it.
Thursday, September 12th, 2013
Hello everybody! Hope you all had a brilliant summer full of lots of new and memorable travel experiences with your families. Whether it was traveling to the other side of the world or discovering new places where you live I’m sure lifetime memories were made for everyone involved.
We had an excellent and very busy summer. We visited lots of lovely places here in Italy as well as taking a big trip to Canada. The kids were both sad and excited last week when we celebrated our last day of summer vacation before starting the school year. We’re already mentally planning and brainstorming travel ideas for next summer. That’s just how we roll in this family.
Today I wanted to write a bit about our time on the South Shore of my hometown province of Nova Scotia. Nova Scotia is one of the three Maritime provinces in Eastern Canada and easily accessible by plane (Halifax International Airport), car or even ferry boat. I’ll be honest from the beginning and let you know that I’ll most likely be waxing on about how beautiful, picturesque and idyllic a family travel destination it is. A girl can be proud of where she’s from, right? (more…)
Friday, August 23rd, 2013
Planning a trip to Walt Disney World? We spent 8 days exploring all 6 parks—that’s right, we even did the water parks. I took my notepad, talked to other Disney goers (and even some staff/Cast Members). Here are all the things we loved and think you’ll love too.
Oh and by the way, I may write for Disney’s Spoonful but I was not commissioned to write this and did not receive any payment, complimentary tickets or anything else for this post. Although, I wish I did. That would have been amazing!
Jen, I gotta ask, why Disney?
Good question. Dave and I have gotten it quite a bit. Especially from friends who’ve heard us wax poetic about our past vacations to the Outer Banks. And to be honest, I kind of had to talk Dave into Disney. He was hoping for something more laid back.
But the time was right—we had the money (miraculously) and the kids were the perfect ages. They were old enough to remember everything and young enough to still enjoy hanging out with Mom and Dad all day.
Plus, we looked at other options and were priced out. Any dreams of Europe or exotic tropical islands would have to wait. And hey, it’s Disney! We knew it’d be a fantastic and memorable experience.
Are your kids huge fans of the characters? (more…)
Tuesday, July 30th, 2013
Today Rachel, who recently returned from a long road trip with her family, is sharing some tips for helping ease your child’s anxiety while on vacation. It’s something that can be very real—yet, not often discussed—when you travel with kids. -Jen
A big thanks to Jennifer for having me here today! Having just returned from a family road trip of my own, it’s the perfect time for me to share a few tips for your summer travel.
Summer vacation can be a tenuous undertaking when you’re traveling with children. Sure, vacation is fun and exciting and fabulous!! *but* it also means time away from routine and comfortable surroundings.
So, how can you protect your little ones from travel anxiety? First, know what to look for. Signs of an anxious kiddo may include: extra clingy, twitchy, problems falling and staying asleep, nausea, headaches, or stomachaches.
If you’re seeing any of these signs, and you suspect that travel anxiety is the culprit, (more…)
Monday, July 29th, 2013
Deborah’s kicking off our vacation week with a camping primer. I grew up going camping with my family. In fact, little story, when I was baby, my mom and I were homeless for a bit while she was waiting for base housing to come through (my dad was in the Navy). Anyway, she pitched a tent and turned what could have been a disaster into a camping adventure. I’ve always been so impressed by that story. She’s a tough cookie, eh?
Now for all you uninitiated campers, Deborah’s going to get you up to speed. Her tips are excellent! Enjoy! -Jen
Little known secret. Ok, it’s not a secret whatsoever. I didn’t grow up camping. Actually I never camped a day in my life until after I was married and had kids. Our first camping adventure didn’t go so well. It was dusty, it wasn’t a very pretty setting, I was unprepared!
In an effort to change my next camping experience I had a few requirements I was going to adhere to: 1. Flush toilets 2. Hot showers 3. Not crowded 4. Pretty setting
To meet these requirements that I made for myself, it took some research. We scoured sites like Trip Advisor and blogs on campsites. Reserve America gave great info as far as services and amenities.
Once we decided on a campground and campsite we decided to get our camping group together. For someone who didn’t have a lot of camping experience it also meant we didn’t have a lot of camping gear. So travelling with a group meant we could pool all our equipment. Not only for gear, but camping in a group means their expertise will come in handy too.
Various questions that I didn’t know the answers to:
-where do we put our food at night?
-where does the trash go?
-what does poison oak look like?
Once we had our campsite reserved and our group coordinated it was just a matter of planning. And I was bound and determined to have a good camping experience for our family. Here are my top 10 tips for families camping in a group: (more…)
Thursday, July 25th, 2013
When you ask people what their top dream travel destinations are usually Paris shows up somewhere near the top of the list. Paris is one of those iconic cities that conjures images of romantic curving cobblestone alleyways and of stylish sophisticated ladies and gents enjoying cappuccino and croissants at quaint French bistrots overlooking the River Seine or the Eiffel Tower. Paris epitomizes the European lifestyle and flair that the rest of the world is so enthralled with. And with good reason. (more…)
Thursday, June 27th, 2013
Time for another Traveling With Kids post. This time I thought I would share some of my favourite family related travel products. For the most part the following items can be used over and over again and they help to make traveling with kids a little easier, more enjoyable and even a tad more stylish. These are great products to buy your own kids before a trip but also fantastic gifts for any little travellers in your life. (more…)